“Take the high road.” Everyone says this at every point in your divorce. Your lawyer, your coach, your therapist. You are sick and tired of hearing it. However, we have reasons ... READ the POST
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My Ex Has a New Girlfriend…Now What?
So it finally happened. That other shoe dropped. Your ex has a girlfriend. And whether he tells you personally, your kids tell you, or you hear it through the grapevine, it ... READ the POST
HOW TO COPE WHEN THE KIDS ARE WITH YOUR EX
Picture this: It’s Thursday night, and you are thinking about your kids going to their other parent’s home for the whole weekend. You won’t see them until Sunday evening. What will ... READ the POST
SELF CARE: WHAT IT IS, WHY YOU NEED IT, AND HOW TO DO IT
All over the internet, we hear the new buzzword, ‘self-care’. When people told me I needed to practice self care during and after my divorce, I had no idea what they meant. Also, I ... READ the POST
Co-Parenting or Parallel Parenting? What’s the Difference?
The paperwork may be finalized and the assets divided, but if you have children, the chances are high that you will still be interacting with your ex when your kids go back and forth between parents ... READ the POST
Co-Parenting Rules of Engagement
Divorcing when you have kids requires some special considerations to protect their mental health and well-being. Assuming that their other parent is willing to remain in the picture, you will most ... READ the POST
![Can you believe 2021 is almost over?? 🤦🏼♀️
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The big ones--Christmas 🎄and New Year’s 🥳-- are upon us--just like that! If you are like me, and have an ‘every other weekend’ schedule with your co parent, it’s possible that you might have your kids just one more time before Christmas. Some of you might have them 2 times--next weekend and Christmas weekend. Either way, it’s not exactly what we thought our lives would be like when we said ‘I do’.
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I know that this is probably the busiest time of the year for everyone, and the struggle is always how to manage it--divorced, divorcing, or not. There are parties [which, now that you are single, you might not want to attend anyhow], there are gift exchanges at work, like Secret Santa, stocking stuffers and gifts to purchase, maybe shipping or mailing to do to get things to loved ones on time. It is a lot.
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It is important, especially now, to take time to take care of YOU.
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Click on the link in the bio to read more about self care through the holidays.
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